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Tuesday 24 March 2015
As adults we might be struggling with giving up sugar and
have to be reminded constantly by our trainers or doctors to go slow depending
on our weight or blood sugar. In the same manner as parents we need to keep
reminding our children to finish their tasks or inculcate some new behaviour
depending on the feedback we get from their school or their behaviour at home.
As humans we are programmed to take the easy way out. And
rather than try new foods with no sugar we might cut out old foods but not
replace them with the nutritious foods. So making changes whether in food
habits or any other habit takes time, practise and patience, and children are
no different.
But as parents remember that you are “training” your kids to
behave in a certain manner. So if you have teen kids and have to keep reminding
them to wake up, get ready, check their bags every morning you have raised them
in a manner for them to “expect your instructions”. And you will realize how tiring that can be for you as a
parent.
Today's video blog, we help you relearn how you can make your
life easy as a parent by training your kids in a manner that they not only
listen to you, finish their task and there is no need for you to repeat
yourself.
Please click on the
photo below to watch the video and listen to the 5 strategies:
1) Are you taking over the task or chore for
your child? So we can become impatient and instead of getting the child to
do the task himself you as a parent think it’s much easier to do it yourself?
Well it is easier no doubt than having to keep repeating yourself, but do think
of it as a short term training for long term gain. By being a bit patient you
can train your child to finish whatever needs to be done himself so that you can
then avoid repeating it in the future.
2) Give your child clear instructions. When
we lose patience and are irritable we can lose sight of what needs to be done
and instead go into a negative loop of whining about our child. Take charge of
yourself and focus your communication so that the child knows clearly what you
are expecting of him, what needs to be done.
3) Give a time limit. When giving
instructions also give him a reasonable amount of time to finish the task plus
give him a time limit, a cut off time by when the task needs to be done. This
will help in building time-management skills for your child too.
4) Consequences for not following through.
Your child needs to know what will be the consequence of not doing the task,
not following through, not getting up on time etc. The easiest consequences are
taking away play time, gadgets, outings etc. depending on what is appropriate
to your household.
5) Rewards. Encourage your child’s good
behaviour, doing his tasks, following through without repetition by buying him a
small gift, going out for a family dinner, a movie and rewarding him.
If you as a parent are at a loss on how to get your child to follow
through and build good behaviour and habits – contact sunainaathena@gmail.com
to know more about how we help you to stop being tired and
exhausted, struggling to get your child to listen. We help your child develop
life skills, time-management, communication, confidence etc. to achieve all
round academic and personal excellence.
Warmest regards,
Sunaina
Sunaina Vohra
Youth & Family Life Coach
Athena Life Coaching
www.athenalifecoaching.com
www.athenalifecoaching.com
Wednesday 4 March 2015
Are you a working mother who feels you do not spend enough time on your child's development?
As mothers we tend to be hard on ourselves most of the time
- our thoughts raging around how we could have spoken calmly to our child
instead of raising our voice, how we could have remembered to dress him up for
book day instead of letting the day slip by with him returning home teary eyed,
how we could spend more time with our child instead of staying late at work....
The list of how we could be better mothers is endless and for working mothers
the list is even longer accompanied with a constant chatter of guilt around
less time with your child.
The grass is greener on the other side is an old adage that
can aptly be used for the working mum versus the stay at home mum. Usually
working mums feel that they are at a disadvantage because they have less number
of hours with their child. Working mums can also be overcome with guilt for not
doing enough.
Today's blog answers a problem by one such working
mother who has written in sharing I feel I don't spend enough time to
contribute to my child's development.
Please click on the
photo below to watch the video and hear and hear how you can rid yourself
of your guilt and take some positive steps to create more bonding with your
child in the given time:
Saturday 14 February 2015
Have you wished the most important person in your life Happy Valentines?
It’s amazing how life brings you exactly what you need. And
this Valentine’s I hope all of us will endeavor to be more loving, caring,
nurturing and giving to the most important person in our life – our self.
Recently I noticed a trend in the people I have been
coaching. Client’s start off thinking that it is somebody else who is
responsible for the way they are feeling. Clients feel run down, lost and
depleted like a diluted version of them self. After coaching realization dawns
that the most important relationship they have ignored is the one they have with
them self. That is when true transformation occurs.
Not surprisingly the majority of such clients are women and
a few men.
A personal anecdote that I always share is when I underwent
a low in my life and my mother-in-law who was visiting at the time said to me:
“Do what makes you happy, whether it is going to work, pursuing a hobby,
learning a new skill or associating with a charitable organisation. Once you,
the centre of the house is happy, you will be able to make others around you
happy.” Its something I have reaped the benefits of and also shared with my
life coaching clients.
Wednesday 4 February 2015
“What is a marriage? What is a relationship?”
Given it’s the month of Valentines the flavor and topics for
the month will be relationships! Of course there are many facets of
relationships and today we are going to discuss the most interesting of them
all – Marriage!
“What is a marriage? What is a relationship?”
Yes, are we all not trying to figure that one out!
Please click on the
photo below to watch the video and hear the strategies I have to offer to
create more love in your relationship this valentine:
This video blog you will break some myths about what
marriage is and add some musts to keep your relationship strong:
1)
Marriage
is made of three parts. A marriage is made up of a husband, wife and “us.” It is a myth that for a marriage to
work you need to lose your identity. On the contrary a secure relationship or
marriage will shape your identity even further to allow you to be yourself,
your true self.
Wednesday 28 January 2015
“How do I stay focused on one task without getting distracted?”
Given the number of distractions in our environment I see more and more parents complaining about how their children lack focus. Though today's topic: "How can I stay focused on one task and not get distracted" applies to everyone young and old. I myself have found myself on many occasions being tempted to check my emails, update twitter and watch a webinar all at the same time!
Today’s question is around a very important aspect of all our lives. A parent has sent in the question but it is applicable to adults too!
“How do I stay focused on one task without getting
distracted?”
Please click on the
photo below to watch the video and hear what you need to do to be
successful in staying focused:
Wednesday 21 January 2015
How can you keep yourself stress free and your child safe on social networking sites?
As adults (parents and others above the age of 21 years who can influence younger children) our actions are being closely followed more than our words. And with the written word being cut short from OK to K, children are moving at a really fast pace to absorb everything in the environment created in real life and in cyber life. There are certain rules around social networking that parents can follow in their homes to create a safe and open environment for the entire family. As always communication is key!
Click the photo to see the video blog!
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